As a breeder, I do know what that is like. Even if ninety percent of my clutches are my own fault. It gets easier with time. One thing that may help is allowing them to converse with your older, maturer Pokemon. Most of the time they'll be more than willing to help watch and entertain them. I've even had a few help teach and train my little ones. Though...I would be mindful of the more impressionable ones. I happen to have a Wartortle who is convinced he is a Ninetales. And his Ninetales mothers will do nothing to change his mind on this.